Maybe

⚡🎶🎧: Be Careful- Cardi B

Actually, I can~

Why settle for a Maybe?

What its so great in the other person that we decide to beg for love, attention or validation.
We seek the love that we think we are accountable for. The one that we think we deserve and mostly most of the times we deserve better than what is given to us.

And is there when you are finding yourself that you realize that maybe, you are lured by an idea, not the actual person. That dream your mind is giving you about situations, that ideal dream of that person maybes is what is giving you hope to stay and try to see how it works out. 

It's been addressed that people tend to give mixed signals, you pretty much did me a fancy number of those too then left hanging like a fucking old rag, bitch that fucking hurt like there wasn't tomorrow. Because in my book of laws, I wasn't expecting too much. I was expecting. Period.

Why you settle for maybes?

Is all about the feeling of self-worth, why you put a cheaper price on yourself when you know that you paid high prices to obtain what you seek in others. Never underestimate yourself, stop knocking a door that only took a peek instead of been opened to you.

Beware of validating prying eyes in your life just because you are lonely. Accept a no gratefully as much you will with a yes. Stop settling for maybes and what-ifs that in the bottom in your heart you are aware people are playing you because we all know when feelings are sincere and when they aren't.

Quit listening to your inner judge, let that victim within you breathe and start writing down a new set of rules, new agreements for you. Seek yourself first, if you don't take maybes from yourself why you take it from someone that isn't living in your shoes? 

Stop fantasizing, stop believing the what ifs, start doing them and if the answer is no, don't chase, Keep moving.
Never settle for that bit of nothing they are providing. 

You know your worth, the right buyer will buy when the right time comes.

Stop giving free samples to those who aren't willed to commit, to sustain, to nourish you in any way.